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Being Gay

Telling Stories

Telling Stories

I have come out twice in my life. Once at 40 with bipolar disorder and once at 50 as gay. I hope at 60 all I have to declare is that my prostrate is a bit doggy.

By far the hardest was telling my wife of 28 years and my 4 teenage children the truth about my sexuality but the hardest to navigate publicly has been my mental illness

My turn

My turn

After a couple of false starts due to weather I’m set to start my swim at 6 am Tuesday (5 pm Tuesday night, Sydney). I will post this when I get final confirmation tonight and then surrender all social media devices while I try to get a few hours sleep.

On coming out

On coming out

When you come out to your wife of 28 years and your four teenage children, the pain of leading an inauthentic life is quickly replaced with the pain of seeing people you love in turmoil for reasons not of their making.